We (Kim my co-host of Joss'd and I) were prepared to hate Dollhouse before the first episode. We had heard the horror stories about how not-so-great it was. Kim's never been a huge Eliza fan and I was worried it had been pared down by Fox.
But then we watched the pilot and loved it. Most people won't believe that we can be open-minded about Joss Whedon (we are huge fangirls) but trust me... we can.
Maybe it was because we could see where the stories could go. A lot of the disillusion people had was thinking there was only one story and once it was told, the show wouldn't have anywhere to go. But Kim and I from the getgo saw tons of stories and opportunities (that have only been really dredged up in this last Friday's episode.
Maybe it's because we immediately loved Topher (and I immediately loved Boyd). We have the people we root for right away in the morally gray world.
Maybe it's because we like something different. There's not a lot of TV shows you can compare Dollhouse to. It's not entirely SciFi, it's not entirely procedural, it's not entirely anything really. But playing with the ethics and morality and the darker side of our world is what keeps me tuning in.
Most people want escapism when they watch TV and I get that. You want to know the heroes win (almost all the time) and the bad guys get caught. But what do you do when faced with a bad guy who you sympathize with? Or a good guy who is obsessed? I think the general TV audience can't handle it.
All I can say it all gets better from Ep 6 (for the people who need stuff pulled together and pointed out to them)

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